Tuesday, September 27, 2016

Sept. 27, 2016 - Addiction and Recovery: Today's Gift from Hazelden Betty Ford Foundation

Tuesday, Sept. 27, 2016

Sept. 27, 2016 - Addiction and Recovery: Step by Step

Step by Step
Tuesday, Sept. 27, 2016

"There is a principle which is a bar against all information, which is proof against all arguments and which cannot fail to keep a man in everlasting ignorance - that principle is contempt prior to investigation." - Herbert Spencer

" ...(A)ny alcoholic capable of honestly facing his problems in the light of our experience can recover, provided he does not close his mind to all spiritual concepts. He can only be defeated by an attitude of intolerance or belligerent denial.
"We find that no one need have difficulty with the spirituality of the program. Willingness, honesty and open-mindedness are the essentials of recovery. But these are indispensable." - Alcoholics Anonymous, 3rd Edition, 1976, Appendices, "Spiritual Experience," p 570.

Today, to close my mind to the possibility of a power greater than myself is equivalent to self-absorption and, as such, my recovery program predictably will fail. Not only does a program that focuses on my wants and needs trample the 12th Step to help the alcoholic who still suffers, it is destined for failure. There is humility and gain in service to others if for no other reason than the possibility that higher power exists and can pull me from inside myself and heed the lessons of other alcoholics. In the process, I may learn that what I think is the enormity of my problems is minuscule against the problems of others. And our common journey continues. Step by step. - Chris M., 2016

Sept. 27, 2016 - Addiction and Recovery: Twenty-Four Hours a Day

Twenty-Four Hours a Day
Tuesday, Sept. 27, 2016

AA Thought for the Day
Continuing the consideration of the term "spiritual experience:" "What often takes place in a few months could seldom have been accomplished by years of self-discipline. With few exceptions, our members find that they have tapped an unsuspected inner resource when they presently identify with their own conception of a Power greater than themselves. Most of us think this awareness of a Power greater than ourselves the essence of spiritual experience. In any case, willingness, honesty and open-mindedness are the essentials of recovery."

Have I tapped that inner resource which can change my life?

Meditation for the Day
God's power in your life increases as your ability to understand His grace increases. The power of God's grace is only limited by the understanding and will of each individual. God's miracle-working power is only limited in each individual soul by the lack of spiritual vision of that soul. God respects free will, the right of each person to accept or reject His miracle-working power. Only the sincere desire of the soul gives Him the opportunity to bestow it.

Prayer for the Day
I pray that I may not limit God's power by my lack of vision. I pray that I may keep my mind open today to His influence.

Hazelden Foundation

Sept. 27, 2016 - Addiction and Recovery: A Day at a Time

A Day at a Time
Tuesday, Sept. 27, 2016

Reflection for the Day
In times past, even as adults, many of us childishly insisted that people protect, defend and care for us. We acted as if the world owed us a living. And then, when the people we most love became fed up, pushing us aside or perhaps abandoning us completely, we were bewildered. We couldn't see that our over-dependence on people was unsuccessful because all human beings are fallible; even the best of them will sometimes let us down, especially when our demands are unreasonable. Today, in contrast, we rely upon God, counting on Him rather than on ourselves or other people.

Am I trying to do as I think God would have me do, trusting the outcome of His will for me?

Today I Pray
May I know, from the dependencies of my past, that I am a dependent person. I depended on alcohol, mood-altering chemicals, food or other addictive pursuits. I was inclined to "hang" on other people, depending on them for more than they could give. May I, at last, switch from these adolescent dependencies to a mature healthy dependency on my Higher Power.

Today I Will Remember
I have more than one dependency.

Hazelden Foundation

Sept. 27, 2016 - Addiction and Recovery: The Eye Opener

The Eye Opener
Tuesday, Sept. 27, 2016

For us alcoholics, the First Step in life was the usual toddle of the infant. The Second Step, we learned to walk erect like a man; the Third Step, we started to run to keep up with the world; the Fourth Step, we were staggering; the Fifth Step was stumbling and falling; and the Twelfth Step found us erect again.

What happened between the Fifth Step when we fell and the Twelfth Step? Don't ask me, I'm an alcoholic, too. I had probably just blacked out. Watch your steps - they take you places.

Hazelden Foundation

Sept. 27, 2016 - Rise 'n shine for what's going to be a terrific Tuesday, folks


Monday, September 26, 2016

Sept. 26, 2016 - Commentary: For LGBTQ people, the closet is still a killing field

Sept. 26, 2016 - Advocate.com - Commentary: The Closet Is Still Killing Us | Advocate.com

Sept. 26, 2016 - Pro baseball shaken by sudden death of Miami pitcher Jose Fernandez

Sept. 26, 2016 - Editorial: It's beyond debate that Donald Trump is unfit to be president

Sept. 26, 2016 - Editorial: Debate moderators have journalistic responsibility to check facts

Sept. 26, 2016 - WashingtonPost.com - Editorial: Debate moderators shouldn’t duck - The Washington Post

Sept. 26, 2016 - Pupil dilation study suggests homophobia is linked to lower interest in sex

Sept. 26, 2016 - Obituary: Arnold Palmer, magnetic face of pro golf in the '60s, dies at 87

Sept. 26, 2016 - To be accepted by society, one man claims his bisexual identity

Sept. 26, 2016 - GoodMenProject.com - Claiming My Bisexuality -

Sept. 26, 2016 - As he nears his 100th birthday, words of warning from screen icon Kirk Douglas

Sept. 26, 2106 - HuffingtonPost.com - The Road Ahead | Huffington Post

Sept. 26, 2016 - A few thoughts ahead of tonight's first presidential debate

Sept. 26, 2016 - TalkingPointsMemo.com - A Few Thoughts on the Debate