Tuesday, November 3, 2015

Nov. 3, 2015 - Ohio taxpayers to foot $1.5 million cost of failed gay marriage fight

Nov. 3, 2015 - Associated Press - Ohio to pay .5 million in gay marriage attorneys’ fees – LGBTQ Nation

Nov. 3, 2015 - Readings in Recovery: Today's Gift from Hazelden Betty Ford Foundation

Tuesday, Nov. 3, 2015
Today's thought from the Hazelden Betty Ford Foundation is:

It's a simple formula; do your best and somebody might like it.
 -- Dorothy Baker


We're never guaranteed success by others' standards. However, if we do our best according to the standards we think God has in mind, we'll be successful. And from God we'll always receive unconditional love and acceptance.

In the past, many of us were haunted by fears that our best wasn't good enough. And not infrequently those fears hindered our performance, thus validating our fears. We can slip back into those immobilizing fears if we don't attend, with vigilance, to the program and its suggestions.

Our higher power will help us do whatever task lies before us. And no task will be ours except those for which we've been readied. Our job is simply to go forth, taking God as our partner, and set about completing the task. We will not falter if we remember where our strength rests, where the guidance lies.

Self-esteem is one of the byproducts of a job done with God's help. An additional byproduct is that we learn more quickly to rely on God's direction and strength the next time, thus reducing the time we give to fear.

I can be successful today, in every endeavor, if I let God manage my moves.
You are reading from the book:
Each Day a New Beginning by Karen Casey. © 1982, 1991 by Hazelden Foundation

Nov. 3, 2015 - Readings in Recovery: Step by Step

Step by Step
Tuesday, Nov. 3, 2015

"There is no more 'aloneness,' with that awful ache, so deep in the heart of every alcoholic that nothing, before, could ever reach it. That ache is gone and never need return again.
'Now there is a sense of belonging, of being wanted and needed and loved. In return for a bottle and a hangover, we have been given the Keys of the Kingdom." - Alcoholics Anonymous, 3rd Edition, 1976, "Personal Stories, Pioneers of AA," Ch 12 ("The Keys of the Kingdom"), p 312.

Today, no minimizing or taking for granted that we have been given "the keys of the kingdom" by surrendering in Step One and then proceeding to the nuts and bolts of the Program. We also cannot take for granted that the keys given us won't be taken away in a disastrous split second in which we cave into self-pity, anger, remorse or hopelessness and pick up the bottle again. If we do, perhaps the single most anguishing emotion of alcoholism - desperate loneliness - once again will engulf us and all that we have worked for thus far will lay in ruins. But, today, we need not cave into those temptations or our self-defeating character defects if we internalize the Steps and their principles, and they can and will get us through any situation and over any mountain of any height. Today, I will not trade my "keys to the kingdom" for "just one more." And our common journey continues. Step by step. - Chris M., 2015

Nov. 3, 2015 - Readings in Recovery: Twenty-Four Hours a Day

Twenty-Four Hours a Day
Tuesday, Nov. 3, 2015

AA Thought for the Day
I have charity, another word for love. That right kind of love which is not selfish passion but an unselfish, out-going desire to help other people. To do what is best for the other person, to put what is best for him or her above my own desires. To put God first, the other person second and myself last. Charity is gentle, kind, understanding, long-suffering and full of desire to serve. AA has given me this. What I do for myself is lost; what I do for others may be written somewhere in eternity.

Have I charity?

Meditation for the Day
"Ask what you will and it shall be done unto you." God has unlimited power. There is no limit to what His power can do in human hearts. But we must will to have God's power and we must ask God for it. God's power is blocked off from us by our indifference to it. We can go along our own selfish way without calling on God's help and we get no power. But when we trust in God, we can will to have the power we need. When we sincerely ask God for it, we get it abundantly.

Prayer for the Day
I pray that I may will to have God's power. I pray that I may keep praying for the strength I need.

Hazelden Foundation

Nov. 3, 2015 - Readings in Recovery: A Day at a Time

A Day at a Time
Tuesday, Nov. 3, 2015

Reflection for the Day
The Program's Twelve Steps comprise a body of living spiritual wisdom. To the degree that we continue to study The Steps and apply them to our daily lives, our knowledge and understanding expand without limitation. As we say in The Program, "It gets better ...and better ...and better." The Eleventh Step speaks of prayer and meditation, urging us to apply our minds quietly to the contemplation of spiritual truth. By its nature, the Eleventh Step illuminates for us the purpose and value of the other Steps. As we seek through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God, the remaining Steps become ever more useful in our new way of life.

Do I take the time each day to pray and meditate?

Today I Pray
May I seek - as the Eleventh Step says - to know God better through prayer and meditation, talking to and listening for God. As my life becomes more full of the realities of earth - and the goodness thereof - may I always keep aside a time for communion with God. May this communion define my life and give it purpose.

Today I Will Remember
Take time out for God.

Hazelden Foundation

Nov. 3, 2015 - Readings in Recovery: The Eye Opener

The Eye Opener
Tuesday, Nov. 3, 2015

Our philosophy of living does not reach as far as immortality - it concerns itself with living this life one day at a time.

We do feel, however, that if we live this day to the best of our ability, endeavoring each day to improve over the preceding day, then when the time comes for us to consider immortality, we will be in a very favorable position, to say the least.

Hazelden Foundation

Nov. 3, 2015 - Good morning & welcome to what's going to be an awesome Tuesday!


Monday, November 2, 2015

Nov. 2, 2015 - A gay dad on parents who want to keep LGBT information out of sex education

Nov. 2, 2015 - evo L = - A Gay Dad Sounds Off on the “Purity” Parents Who Want to Keep LGBT Info Out of Sex Education | evoL =

Nov. 2, 2015 - Boxer Yusaf Mack comes out as bisexual

Nov. 2, 2015 - Instinct - Boxer Yusaf Mack Comes Out: "I Am A Bisexual Man" | Instinct

Nov. 2, 2015 - Pride goes pro: Aussies to play LGBT pride-themed football game in 20 16 season

Nov. 2, 2015 - The Good Men Project - Pride Goes Pro: Aussie Footballers to Play Pride-Themed Game in 2016 Regular Season -

Nov. 2, 2015 - A parent's journey to recovery from a loved one's drug abuse

Nov. 2, 2015 - The Good Men Project - Identifying the Signs of Drug Abuse in Teens

Nov. 2, 2015 - This is what a gay hero looks like

Nov. 2, 2015 - The Good Men Project - This is What a Gay Hero Looks Like -

Nov. 2, 2015 - A survivor of gay conversion therapy - with scars to prove it

Nov. 2, 2015 - Advocate - A Firsthand Account of the Torture of 'Conversion' Therapy | Advocate.com

Nov. 2, 2015 - The man who forgives and knows himself can also love himself

Nov. 2, 2015 - The Good Men Project - A Man Who Forgives Himself and Knows Himself Can Learn to Love Himself -

Nov. 2, 2015 - Organization founded to provide financial assistance to gay dads-to-be

Nov. 2, 2015 - The Good Men Project - The Men Having Babies Organization Provides Financial Assistance to Gay Dads-to-Be -