Thursday, May 28, 2015

May 28, 2015 - New report underlines savage inequalities faced by LGBT Americans

Advocate.com: May 28, 2015 - New Report Underlines Savage Inequalities Faced by LGBT Americans | Advocate.com

May 28, 2015 - Why Indiana was the perfect storm for an HIV outbreak

HIV Plus: May 28, 2015 - Why Indiana Was Perfect Storm for HIV Outbreak | HIVPlusMag.com

May 28, 2015 - Another closet: The need to intervene in LGBT domestically violent relationships

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May 28, 2015 - Why men might not go to therapy when we need it

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May 28, 2015 - Clemson football coach Dabo Swinney pulls out of event sponsored by anti-gay organization

Outsports: May 28, 2015 - Clemson football coach Dabo Swinney pulls out of event sponsored by anti-gay group - Outsports

May 28, 2015 - High school athlete on coming out as gay: 'Best decision I've ever made'

Outsports: May 28, 2015 - High school athlete comes out on Twitter: 'The best decision I've ever made' - Outsports

May 28, 2015 - Priest removed from Seton Hall breaks silence, comes out publicly as gay

Outsports: May 28, 2015 - Priest removed from Seton Hall breaks his silence, comes out publicly as gay - Outsports

May 28, 2015 - Eroding a stigma: Is TV finally ready for real HIV-positive characters?

HIV Plus: May 28, 2015 - Is Television Finally Ready for Real HIV-Positive Characters? | HIVPlusMag.com

May 28, 2015 - HIV treatment should start at diagnosis, U.S. health officials contend

New York Times: May 28, 2015 - H.I.V. Treatment Should Start at Diagnosis, U.S. Health Officials Say - NYTimes.com

May 28, 2015 - Readings in Recovery: Today's Gift from Hazelden

The Serenity Prayer
Thursday, May 28, 2015
Today's thought from Hazelden is:

I can hear music...sweet, sweet music.
 -- Brian Wilson


We often find it helpful to think about the role music has played in our lives. Sometimes, it has been a problem for us - time spent listening to loud, blaring music was a time of physical and emotional isolation, usually under the influence of drugs.

In recovery we may find ourselves drawn to a different kind of music that speaks to our changing way of life. Perhaps it is more soothing or relaxing. Perhaps it is a new artist.

Whatever type of music we choose, we find it is much more than a pastime for us. It is an appreciation. Our favorite artists, our favorite songs - some never change, some do.

Our relationship with music is growing and changing. In recovery we find music engages our minds and relaxes our bodies in a new way. Music lifts our spirits, too. We are grateful that music is part of our life and that we now have a chance to think about it and perhaps even develop some new interests. Music is an excellent way to get to know other people; it helps us unwind after a hard day and adds a new dimension to our enjoyment of life.

Today I thank You for music. Help me to love and appreciate it even more now that I am sober.
You are reading from the book:
Body, Mind, and Spirit © 1990 by Hazelden Foundation

May 28, 2015 - Readings in Recovery: Step by Step

The Serenity Prayer
Step by Step
Thursday, May 28, 2015
Today, my character defects in my Fourth Step and the amends in my Eighth Step are not confined to wrongs of commission but also to my wrongs of omission. With that reality, my Fourth and Eighth Steps, hopefully, will be more honest. My moral inventory and amends I have tried before have focused on things I have done or said, but they have not included my wrongs done by not saying or doing what I should have. Maybe I neglected or refused to return love or support that someone showed me in my darkest days, or maybe I didn't answer someone's call for help for whatever reason. Today, I return to my Fourth and Eighth steps to decide if I owe restitution not for what I did, but for what I didn't do. And our common journey continues. Step by step. - Chris M., 2015

May 28, 2015 - Readings in Recovery: Twenty-Four Hours a Day

The Serenity Prayer
Twenty-Four Hours a Day
Thursday, May 28, 2015

AA Thought for the Day
In AA, we learn that since we are alcoholics we can be uniquely useful people. That is, we can help other alcoholics when perhaps somebody who has not had our experience with drinking could not help them. That makes us uniquely useful. The AA's are a unique group of people because they have taken their own greatest defeat and failure and sickness and used it as a means of helping others. We who have been through the same thing are the ones who can best help other alcoholics.

Do I believe that I can be uniquely useful?

Meditation for the Day
I should try to practice the presence of God. I can feel that He is with me and near me, protecting and strengthening me always. In spite of every difficulty, every trial, every failure, the presence of God suffices. Just to believe that He is near me brings strength and peace. I should try to live as though God were beside me. I cannot see Him because I was not made with the ability to see Him else there were no room for faith. But I can feel His spirit with me.

Prayer for the Day
I pray that I may try to practice the presence of God. I pray that by doing so I may never feel alone or helpless again.

Hazelden Foundation

May 28, 2015 - Readings in Recovery: A Day at a Time

The Serenity Prayer
A Day at a Time
Thursday, May 28, 2015

Reflection for the Day
We've all had times when we felt alienated, when it seemed we had nowhere to turn and no one to turn to. When we don't know which way to turn, when there seems to be no one to help us, even then we're not alone or without help - the presence of God is always with us. When we need strength or courage or comfort, God is there with us as the help we need. Even before we turn to God, His love reaches out to us; His loving Spirit in us hears our cry and answers us.

Do I truly believe that I no longer need be alone?

Today I Pray
May I never be alone, even in a place by myself, if I take time to talk to my Higher Power. May He be my companion, my joy, my ever-present help in trouble. May the knowledge of His constant presence fill me with calm, so that I will not fear either the solitude of my own room or alienation in a roomful of people.

Today I Will Remember
Listen for the presence of God.

Hazelden Foundation

May 28, 2015 - Readings in Recovery: The Eye Opener

The Serenity Prayer
The Eye Opener
Thursday, May 28, 2015

Love is as necessary to a human being as sunshine is to a plant. Without it, the soul of man withers, shrivels and dies. Fortunate is the man who has love given to him, but even more fortunate is he who earns it. The only way to earn love is to love. Thou shalt love thy God with all thy heart and thy neighbor as thyself.

He who hoards love shall lose it, but he who scatters love about him as he moves through life finds that it takes root and surrounds him on every side.

Hazelden Foundation

May 28, 2015 - Rise 'n shine to what's gonna be a Tremendous Thursday, folks!