Saturday, Jan. 22, 2022
Today’s Gift from Hazelden Betty Ford Foundation is:
Judge people by their questions rather than by their answers. — Voltaire
Addicts tend to be talkative people. For some of us, it may be that we’ve spent too long alone and are dying for company. At other times, we may have things to hide and we talk to cover up. Talking nonstop is one good way to avoid asking the hard questions. It can also keep us from really listening and providing thoughtful answers. We all need to talk, but we also need to take time to be silent. In silence we can assess ourselves and our position in the world, and examine the things we want and need to know.
Our programs give us the opportunity to sit and be quiet with ourselves and listen to others. When someone is explaining a Step or telling their story, we can learn simply by listening and formulating the questions we need to ask during the discussion. A good question is worth a thousand thoughtless words.
I will take time this week to be silent and think about what I’ve learned about myself and the people around me. This will enhance my recovery and service to others.
Hazelden Foundation
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